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Dating in Nairobi, with the honest answers first

Nairobi is a hard place to meet someone: long days, long commutes, and the same few circles. Here you can see who is single, what they want and whether you share the same plans before anyone spends an evening in traffic.

Find someone who fits your Nairobi

Every member lists their area, so you can see whether someone is across town or down the road, whether that's Westlands, Kilimani, Karen, Rongai or Eastlands. Filter by age, children, religion, drinking and smoking, then read what they've written.

Whether someone wants marriage, a long-term relationship or to see where things go, they say so on their profile, so you don't have to guess.

Meeting safely in the city

Video-call first. Meet somewhere busy, like a café or a mall, during the day. Tell a friend where you're going, arrange your own transport both ways, and never go to someone's home on a first date.

Read our safety guide

Common questions

Is there a dating site just for Nairobi?

We cover all 47 counties, and you can look only at Nairobi. Open the Nairobi page or filter Browse by county.

Can I meet foreigners in Nairobi?

Yes. Silver and Gold members are shown to people abroad, and Kenyans living abroad can join too. Our safety guide covers what to watch for.

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