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PendoKenya & beyond

Meet Kenyan men, with the honest answers first

If you're hoping to meet a Kenyan man, the first thing you'll want to know is whether he's being straight with you. Here, every member answers the same questions, and a person reviews the profile before it goes live.

What you'll see on a profile

Whether he's single, divorced, widowed or married. Whether he has children, what he does for work, his religion, whether he drinks or smokes, whether he'd relocate, and whether he has a passport. The ID verified badge means we've also seen a national ID or passport.

What it costs you

Looking at profiles from outside Kenya is free, with no account. To see someone's other photos and contact them, create a free account and confirm your email. That shows WhatsApp, phone and email for up to 20 members a day, and you never pay per message.

Stay in charge

Most people online are sincere, but romance scams target women abroad as well. Be careful with fast declarations of love, or a sudden family emergency. Visit in person and take your time before making plans together.

Never send money, airtime, gift cards or "visa fees" to someone you've met online, however genuine they seem. Video-call before you trust anyone, meet in a public place, and report anything that feels wrong to us.

Read our safety guide

Common questions

Can women from abroad use the site free?

Yes. Anyone browsing from abroad can view profiles free, and a free account with a confirmed email unlocks contact details for up to 20 members a day.

How can I tell if a man is serious?

Look at what he's written, video-call more than once, and notice whether his story stays the same. Someone serious will be glad to meet in person and will never ask you for money.

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